Monday, 20 September 2010

Saturday, 10 April 2010

Tuesday, 16 March 2010

The Delusion of imagined status in NLP

I couldn’t stop laughing today reading about a bunch of people in NLP all discussing their imagined refusal or acceptance of “status certifications” I have decided to refer to certifications now in this way as they have absolutely no connection with the attainment of any skills and are mostly given out like the “special badges” you might get at school. It’s all pretty harmless except when such nonsense is used to then try and drive others to spend thousands of pounds on events so they too can obtain their own “status certificates”
At the recent Mindscapes event in New York Andrew T Austin gave a really insightful presentation on “imagined status” and hierarchy in the health sector. In many instances this hierarchy creates more problems than it solves and in my view in the world of NLP the same behaviours exist. People talk about “being granted” certifications like in some medieval feudal system, not realizing that all they are doing is unintentionally promoting the imagined status of the person “granting” the certification! NLP has so lost its way that now virtually everyone is a “master” or “genius” and quite frankly it’s embarrassing for those who advocate a professional standard of training and proper duty of care in teaching.
I suspect that this increasing desperation to position NLP in an academic, educational and medical context (again without any proper process and duty of care) will actually contribute to its downfall. The marketing hype in NLP has gone into overdrive with the endless “life changing promises!” The warning signs of a decline in NLP are already there with greatly declining interest in events, some longstanding NLP companies announcing the end of running NLP certificated events and one major NLP Training company currently in a voluntary arrangement with the VAT man owing a huge amount of money…
Often NLPers take themselves way too seriously proudly proclaiming their “qualifications” (aka imagined status certifications) totally unaware that they have absolutely no value outside those who issued it. Worse still more and more people are proclaimed as “One of the few etc” people highly skilled in NLP, it becomes quite ludicrous as there must now be thousands of the “few” in this category. Some trainers will even ask you to e-mail whatever testimonial you want and they will sign it off as coming from themselves in person!
There was a time when I was really quite pleased to describe myself as having taught NLP. These days I’d keep my period of training in NLP pretty quiet in the same way I would if I had been working at management level for Lloyds Bank or The Royal Bank of Scotland!

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Thursday, 21 January 2010

New site online Nick Kemp Training

www.nickkemptraining.com is now redesigned and LIVE here!

Discover Nick Kemp's NLP, Business, Provocative and Therapy Trainings as well as a host of articles and free information

Tuesday, 29 December 2009

Friday, 16 October 2009

Thursday, 8 October 2009

Nick Kemp talks about choosing a Hypnotherapist



Nick Kemp talks about choosing a hypnotherapist

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Tuesday, 15 September 2009

Friday, 4 September 2009

Decline in NLP?

http://www.nickkemp.com/blog/index.php

Changing trends in recent years

Wednesday, 26 August 2009

Nick Kemp and NLP

Nick Kemp has been involved in the field of personal change for thirty years, having studied many forms of communication and personal development, including Hypnosis, Provocative Therapy and Neuro Linguistics, before creating his own Provocative Change Works(tm) approach that he uses in his private practice. His highly acclaimed Human Alchemy (tm) series of CDs attracted international attention and he created the first ever commercial multi sound DTS hypnosis CD. In early 2001 Nick Kemp’s Human Alchemy CDs had already became regarded by many as some of the finest hypnosis products available, and were described by Anglo American Books in the following way -
“We are sent many CDs and audiotapes from therapists for review, but it is truly unusual to come across a product that is as effective and professional as this offering from Nick Kemp. As well as being a useful tool it should be of great interest to those who wish to use the more complex language techniques inherited from Milton Erickson's great work.”
In 2004 Nick Kemp met Frank Farrelly, (creator of Provocative Therapy and influence on the creators of NLP) and began an intensive training to become an approved Provocative Therapy Trainer. He subsequently founded The Association for Provocative Therapy (or AFPT) and released the “Provocative Change Works for Phobias” DVD set which has commentary from Frank Farrelly himself. In 2006 Nick Kemp was a guest for 26 consecutive weeks on BBC Radio curing phobics live on the air using his Provocative Change Works approach. This has been described by Frank Farrelly to a professional colleague in the following way
“You’ll find his work on phobias using PT mixed with NLP and Hypnosis quite a blend and Enlightening!”
Frank Farrelly
In 2008 Nick Kemp was invited to present at the IASH Conference in San Francisco to a “standing room only” audience and he has since also presented his work in New York. In 2009 and 2010 he will be running a series of new trainings in the UK, Europe and USA. His Provocative Change Works approach and creation of the Provocative Icon System (tm) has attracted the attention of many international trainers including Steve Andreas who made the following comment
“Do you know Nick Kemp? – (he is) exceptionally bright, and I have immensely enjoyed communicating...The kind of exchanges that I have been having... are the kind of activities that I think can really advance the field.”
Steve Andreas
NLP Developer, Writer

For Nick Kemp’s official site see www.nickkemp.com
For Nick Kemp’s trainings see www.nickkemptraining.com

Monday, 20 April 2009

A real NLP resource at last!

When you check out www.nlpmp3.com you will discover a site which is a far cry from the craziness that occurs on NLP newsgroups, which do little to enhance the reputation on Neuro Linguistic Programming. The site contains interviews with a wide range of NLP trainers and has a host of material in an age where all to often the same mp3 interviews are recycled across a range of sites.

In these economic times its more important than ever than people ask discriminating questions about who to train with and the site offers a great insight into some of the best minds in NLP from a wide range of different schools. The site also contains some unique interviews with Frank Farrelly the creator of Provocative Therapy who was modelled by Bandler and Grinder.

Monday, 16 March 2009

Cool April event for NLP people

There are still a few places left on the Nick Kemp & Andrew T Austin Therapeutic Excellence event April 4/5th

Book online at www.nickkemptraining.com

Monday, 2 February 2009

NLP, phrasing and pressupositions

In NLP we learn about the the use of pressupositions and their effects, but I can't help but marvel at whether sometimes their usage and other linguistic combinations are not as "considered" as they might be...

Let's look at a few examples

Effortless Success - Effort = "less success?"

"Get the life you want" - presupposition that you don't already have it?

"Welcome to X NLP Academy, the UK's leading academy?" - "leading" according to whom exactly?

"At NLP Life, you will learn to release the amazing person inside of you" - assumption that "the amazing person (amazing defined by whom?") is not already "released!

Monday, 12 January 2009

NLP Applications in business


I just finished a day on NLP applications in business. We spent the day exploring how to use NLP skills in this context, including using language in building rapport and influence. We also spent some time on determining how to create really excellent strategic thinking and used some of the exercises that I use in corporate work. Often the simplest and most precise exercises produce really great results!
In 2009 I am running a number of NLP trainings for business and details can be found at www.nickkemp.com

Tuesday, 23 December 2008

What is and what isn't NLP?


As more and more people try to run NLP trainings, in recent times there has been an attempt to add more and more non NLP elements to the shopping basket to attract punters. Such elements include glass and fire walking, tapping of various kinds (sadly no "tapping for cash" as evidenced at www.tappingforcash.com) reiki and many other approaches.
IMO none of this is especially good to enhance the reputation of NLP which is often marketed as an instant fix for all life's ills! NLP when correctly used, trancends the hype and marketing found increasingly online and can really help people in both therapy and business, when properly applied.

Have a Cool Yule

Nick
www.nickkemp.com

Monday, 22 December 2008

NLP Online resource


For those who have not checked www.nlpmp3.com out yet, take a look as it has interviews with a host of different NLP trainers from all schools of NLP as well as some great downloads!

I set the site up as a central resource for NLP and the site has literally thousands of subscribers from all over the planet

Sunday, 14 December 2008

Derren Brown and NLP

Many people see Derren Brown and think that many of his antics involve using NLP, which actually is not the case. Derren lives in the Bristol area and only ever did one NLP training back in late 1997, which was
the NLP Prac in London. Parts of this event were released on one of
the now deleted State of the Art videos and Derren can clearly be seen in the audience! I did my own NLP training (as did Tina) in March 1999 when Michael Breen a co trainer at that event commented (when being asked about Derren) "He's one of ours" which was a bit of an exaggeration (you mean NLP trainers exagerate? LOL) as he was simply one of hundreds of delegates on one single London event, known then as Darren V Brown...

Prior to this Derren had an avid interest in stage magic and sleight
of hand and many of this supposed NLP based demos are actually nothing of the sort and use more mentalism and misdirection. Many NLP forms are full of speculation about his NLP skills and although he has used NLP, its not his main tool kit.

The best example of one demo where NLPers often are "misdirected into believing that he is *doing NLP* is the betting demo shown on C4 TV, where he claimed a 100% success rate on betting

Here is the actual explanation (thanks to wikepedia)


The show was based around the idea that a system could be developed to predict the outcome of horse races with total accuracy. Cameras
followed an ordinary member of the public, Khadisha, as Brown
anonymously sent her correct predictions of 5 races in a row, before
encouraging her to place as much money as she could on the 6th race.

To demonstrate the system to the viewer Brown tossed a coin showing 10 heads in a row to prove it was not impossible, just highly improbable.

After Brown had placed a bet of £4,000 of Khadisha's money on a horse in the final race, he explained that The System didn't really exist.
He had started by contacting 7,776 people and split them into six
groups, giving each group a different horse. As each race had taken
place 5/6ths of the people had lost and were dropped from the system.
Far from Brown knowing which horse would win, he had a different
person backing each horse in each race, and it was simple logic that
meant that one individual, who happened to be Khadisha, won five times in a row. This was similar to the coin flipping earlier: rather than having a predictive technique, Brown had simply tossed a coin repeatedly until 10 heads had come up in a row, taking over nine hours to produce the required film. Brown expressed the opinion that the principle behind The System (essentially confirmation bias) is what is behind belief in spiritualism or homeopathic and alternative medicine.

After the selected horse in the final race lost, and Khadisha was
convinced that she had lost all her borrowed money, Brown told
Khadisha to look again at the betting slip in her hand. The ticket
showed the winning horse's name, meaning Khadisha kept her stake and
received winnings of £13,000. Brown explained that he had decided to
bet for a different horse when he got to the booth.

I had some communications with Derren's agent a few years ago when I
got a more detailed explanation of his views on NLP, some of which are in his recent "Tricks of the Mind" book where he is less than
complimentary about NLP courses!

He is more interested in mentalism than NLP and his first two books
Absolute Magic and Pure Effect show much of how he achieves his
tricks. Interestingly since his first TV appearance in 2000 on C4 both
books are now quite valuable and out of print...

See
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/PURE-EFFECT-DERREN-BROWN-RARE-OUT-OF-PRINT_W0QQitemZ130269833207QQcmdZViewItemQQptZLH_DefaultDomain_0?hash=item130269833207&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3A1294%7C66%3A2%7C65%3A12%7C39%3A1%7C240%3A1318


(BTW I have both)

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Saturday, 13 December 2008

Events for 2009

The Provocative Therapy practice day in Feb is fast getting booked up and the lastest news is that I am also running a weekend course with Doug O Brien in Leeds Nov 2009.
Its going to be an amazing year with lots of new products and workshops, both in the UK, Europe and USA!

Monday, 8 December 2008

SOM Weekend


The expressions on people's faces say it all! This was a fantastic training from Doug O Brien

Sunday, 9 November 2008

Learning more about NLP and other skills online

For those interested in learning more about the many different NLP trainer takes on NLP, www.nlpmp3.com is an excellent place to start. This site has a host of totally free interviews with different NLP and other trainers all presenting their own views on NLP. Recently I added an interview with Alison Hirons talking about NLP in education as a downloadable mp3.
You will also be able to download and listen to interviews with Steve Andreas, Richard Bandler, Nick Kemp, Sue Knight, Doug O Brien among many others. Non NLP trainers on the site include Frank Farrelly, making this a great resource for anyone interested in learning from great communicators